My husband and I have had herpes since our first sexual encounters (we both thought we went into the relationship without it, but had a breakout about the same time during the early shagathon stage of a new relationship - 12 (otherwise) happy years later we neither know nor care who started it).
Within the last year, we have both had mysterious back pain "out-breaks" for a few days. As in can't walk, lower back pain - but with no obvious structural or muscular symptoms (we are both athletes so are familiar with muscular/structural pain). Definitely at the middle/end of a low level out break (OB) for one of three incidence, but not sure about the other two. (We sometimes have outbreaks that are not very noticeable unless you happen to feel a bit sluggish and think to poke around to see if pelvic glands are swollen). It sounds odd that we would have the same symptoms, but this has been pretty common throughout our relationship... somehow our OBs seem to not only occur at a similar time (which makes sense) but also have similar symptoms (which makes less sense).
It occurs that as type two hangs out near the nerves at the base of the spine, that this might be a herpes thing ... anyone else experience this?