Almost certainly not herpes. Herpes doesn't cause boils. And the location is wrong as well; herpes rarely causes lesions in the groin -- but it's a typical location for non-STD skin infections, especially in overweight people. Almost always the first outbreak of herpes involves the place most directly exposed to the virus, i.e. those places that get maximum friction during sex. Usually that means the penis, vaginal opening, minor labia, or anus. And your other sympoms also don't sound like herpes.
Thank you for your reply howard! Cheers mate :)
I took at a lot of anti biotics after the incident. Fifteen days of taxim injection so that it could kill of any bacterial infection. Thought it might be syphillis as i took the vdrl test on 6th week which came negative. Thought the antibiotics might have had an effect on the result. Have been too broke for a long time for taking medical tests.