Hello,
I recently started a relationship with a woman who informed me that she has genital HSV2. She has had it for 20 years, is on 1g Valtrex daily and knows her prodrome symptoms when she is getting an outbreak. Because of all this, she said she has never transmitted it to anyone else.
We started having unprotected sex on a Friday, and did it 3 times a day until Monday. On Monday, I noticed the right side of my glans near the widest part felt raw. Everything looked normal. We took a 3 day break from sex then repeated the 3 times a day the following weekend. The raw feeling in my penis got worse to the point I went to the dr. It literally felt like I had a raw sore, but nothing was there. She confirmed everything looked normal, but said it was probably herpes based on my symptoms and my girlfriend's status. She prescribed acyclovir, which I didn't start taking yet.
I repeatedly checked myself every day, and at around the 12-13 day mark, I noticed a possible darker spot in the area where it was raw. If I pull the skin in that area tight, I can see what look like two very tiny sores. Although, if the light is not right and I don't pull the skin tight, it looks pretty normal. At the 15 day point I started taking the acyclovir. The following two days the raw feeling was pretty bad. It feels ok at night and in the morning, but gets worse during the day. Now I'm at the 18 day point, 3 days into the acyclovir, the two very tiny sores are unchanged, but the raw feeling is slightly better today for the first time (but I've thought that before).
I'm convinced this is an initial outbreak (I tested negative with HerpeSelect the week before we started having sex), but I still hold on to a sliver of hope. In your opinion is this an outbreak? Obviously, I'll get tested again at the 3-4 month mark, but I'm trying to resolve myself until then.