A while back I had sex with a woman for the first time, and just found out she has herpes. it was a long time ago and for the past two years, i've been with another. I fear i may have contracted herpes, though i show no sign. reading on the internet, it says sometimes there is no sign. On top of this fear, what is the chance of me spreading it to my girlfriend? we haven't had sex, but we have kissed. SO may questions are what are the chances i did contract herpes (i used condom and i dont believe she was having an outbreak of it) and. more importantly, what are the chances of spreading it to my companion sometime these past two years? I would be very thankful for any help in this matter.