I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and about 1-2 days later, I noticed a single red bump on the shaft (near the base) of my penis. It's not a blister, it just looks like a bug bite; simply a red bump. I have Vitiligo which often causes some minor itching, so I accidentally scratched the bump open and it contains clear fluid (much like a bug bite does).
Since then (it's been a day or 2 at the most), 2 more bumps have appeared. One is much smaller, right next to the first one and the other is a tad smaller than the first, located on the top of my shaft about 3-4 inches from the initial bump.
They aren't painful at all but I have noticed, what I believe to be the lymph nodes in my groin, are sore when I lightly press on them. A day or so before the first bump appeared, I began to feel sick; fever, then cold sweat, headache and some body aches but it went away within a few hours and stayed away for a couple days. It returned for another few hours, I took some Nyquil Cold & Flu, and felt great an hour later and have felt fine since.
My boyfriend did develop a cold sore on his lip, I don't really remember if it was before or after we had sex. I'm thinking after but I'm honestly not certain. I know cold sores are type 1 or whatever and genital herpes are type 2 (correct?) So is it possible to contract genital herpes from someone who has a cold sore?
I'm going to get tested in the morning but I'm really upset and concerned, especially since I rarely engage in sex with anyone unless I'm in a long term committed relationship. Any insight would be greatly appreciated.