Hope this isn't too long-winded. I just want it detailed. This is all the stuff that happened to me in the past 1.5 months and I'm wondering if it all would be misdiagnosed signs of a first outbreak. I'm getting a blood test tomorrow morning.
Started dating a friend I had for 6 years in mid-December.
We started having sex. I'm on birth control, so I did not use condoms. He told me got tested a few months back, negative for everything etc.
Mid-January during sex I had a vaginal tear (right on the opening) which sucked but healed over in about a week. It didn't look like an ulcer or anything but god did it hurt to pee. About 5 days after I got it, I got really sick. Flu, nausea, sore everywhere, could barely walk, couldn't eat, migraines, night sweats, temperature of 38.5 Celsius. I got blood and urine tests done, my doctor said it was a kidney infection (in my urine test the bacteria levels were listed as +++). I took some antibiotics for approx 10 days.
I got a yeast infection about 7 days into this, but it wouldn't go away for about 1.5 weeks. I tried 3 different medications and the only one that seems to have helped is an oral medication. I'm now mostly ok, still some remaining itching but like 95% gone. Nothing too out of the ordinary.
During this time I got a small bump on my labia that LOOKED like a blister and it hurt, but it went away in two days, no scab etc. There was no tingling or burning before, during or after. Thing is, I horseback ride and had some underwear and pantiliner rubbing, so I'm suspecting and hoping that.
At this point in time, I ask said boyfriend if he really did get tested 5-6 months ago. Turns out he blatantly lied to me for some stupid reasons and kept changing stories. It was well over a year ago, he had sex with a promiscuous ex girlfriend etc. I freak, told him to get tested. He did and he tested positive for HSV 1 IgG and HSV 2 IgG.
I'm so scared and so worried. I've done A LOT of reading about this and understand it's not the end of my life if I do have HSV but I don't want to have it obviously. I've had to wait all weekend, Monday and Tuesday for my tests because where I live, EVERYTHING is closed for the holidays.
Does this sound like an initial outbreak or just a load of bad luck, getting sick one after another? I'm just curious to see what people say regarding first outbreaks as there's not many very detailed accounts that I could find.