If you tested positive on a swab test, typed or not, the changes are overwhelming in the favor of you being infected. False positives on swab tests are very rare indeed. They do happen, but are very very rare. Obviously if you have virus on your penis, you are infected. I'm not sure how your doctor could come to a different opinion. but it is important to know the type at some point.
Terri
I think one episode of receiving oral sex is unlikely to result in infection for you. The odds are not zero, but they are low. The earliest time I would suggest getting a blood antibody test would be 3 weeks past the contact. The final test should be 4 months from the encounter.
However, if you develop sores (not the red bumps that you describe), I would go in immediately to get those swab tested.
I know you feel somewhat frantic about this, I can feel it from your post. Do you have a regular partner as well? If yes, does your partner get cold sores, or has ever had them? Does your partner give you oral sex? If yes, then the risk is far greater from a regular partner than from this brief encounter with he stripper.
Terri