HSV1 is not just a sexually transmitted disease. The overwhelming majority of infections come from face to face contact between parent or close family member and child. You do not need to recall cold sores to have the infection which is asymptomatic in a proportion of cases.
Thanks for the reply. We did not get any cold sores. My wife had/has only one partner. That is me. I will do re-testing after sometimes. Thanks again.
If you had your blood test within a few weeks of symptoms first appearing, it may have been too early to detect antibodies for HSV1. Hence for the second test, your body may now be making the antibodies.
The level is somewhat low, in the range of being a false positive where things other than the antibodies react with the test. HSV1 testing can miss some infections, hence if a different manufacturer's test was applied perhaps it is picking up an oral infection that has always been there since your youth (you don't need to remember oral cold sores to be infected, that applies to your wife).
Why are the doctors swabbing sores for herpes. If you can get to them just as a sore is appearing, this will help with a diagnosis as HSV1 will always present issues as to location or even both locations.
Your wife may still be a source regardless of whether she recalls oral cold sores.
You have a few options. Wait a few more weeks and retest and see if your antibody levels have shifted materially. Upwards you are most probably infected and downwards you may well not be infected.
Once you reach 16 weeks post your first known symptoms, you could have a Westernblot HSV test which is the most accurate you can obtain.