Please , Someone helps me .
Genital hsv1 is transmitted if the person who has it orally has the virus active on their mouth, either with an outbreak (cold sore) or they have asymptomatic viral shedding. This happens about 25% days per year, but there is no way to know when those days are without testing.
It could be from saliva if the saliva has come into contact with the sores or shedding, but saliva doesn't have to be involved.
Do you know if the person who gave you oral sex has hsv1? Do you know if you have it? Over half the adult population has it, and 90% never get a cold sore, so they don't know they have it. You could easily have it and not know it. If you have it already, you can't get it again.
What is scaring you so much about this?
Thank you Auntiejessi for your Answers , I really appreciate that .
I Asked A question in STD's community , and you answered me and told me what I need to know .
To remember you , I am married and my wife is pregnant, and that's the main reason of why I am freaking out .
I don't know If she has it , and she had no sores around her mouth , but could the cold sores inside the mouth ?
I don't know If I have it , and I never had cold sores before .
I am today at day "27" after the Exposure and I still away from my wife and I really had A very Hard time .
I am so scared because she had A very bad smell in her mouth and the smell left on my penis , please tell me that cold sores can not be inside the mouth ... :(
I sent that girl yesterday to ask her about her HSV-1 Status and she answered :"Don't worry , Everything will be ok" with All cold blood .. !!
She Scared me a lot , I am in A bad condition .
Did you ever test to see if you have hsv1 already?
You have a lot of questions about things - have you seen your doctor? You have a bright pink foreskin - has your doctor seen that? No STD would cause that.
Have you tested for anything yet?
What made me freaking out that Some symptoms I had in the last few days ,
At day #14 I shaved my gential, and everything is fine , then I shaved it again at day #22 and then happened what happened ,
All herpes symptoms came to me , itching , burning , tingling , and then some white bumps came out on testicles, and gone same day , And till today I feel itchy and not comfortable , I am freaking out
I am now at day 29 after exposure .
I am waiting the 6 weeks period , but I am planning to go to doctor next 3 days .
Today I started thinking of the worst scenario, If she had sores in her throat and her sores pus came into my penis opening , will I get HIV also ....
I am so messsed out and my wife doubts about everything , I am in the worst situation I have ever in my life , I refused my wife and I still resistant , I afraid to infect her with what ever I caught and destroy her and the baby life....
I started seeing nightmares in the last few days , but nothing like the nightmare that I am living these days .
I am thinking how my life will become if I was infected with gential herpes , how could I come back to my wife without infecting her , and how could we have another baby in the future !!
And then I can not get intimate with her ..
And I am afraid to infect my little girl also .
I am sorry for all of that but your the only one who knows about my situation and talk to me , I really don't know how I was stable all the last period .
Also , white bumps came in 3 days and increased , I squeezed one of it to see the exact color in it, it was almost white , and when I showered it was gone by itself ,but still their place you can see it when look , but itching and tingling was A lot, also my hair was falling A lot in last few days .
Okay, first, what you are dealing with here is extreme stress and anxiety. Hair falling out is a common sign of that. You absolutely need to seek some help for this or you aren't going to get through this without breaking down, and then FOR SURE, your secret will be revealed.
You are NOT at risk for HIV. It doesn't matter if she had sores - pus does not transmit HIV.
I can promise you, as a female, that if she had pus-filled sores in her throat, she would NOT be performing oral sex. Her throat would hurt far too badly.
Stop shaving your genital area. If you have a fungal infection, or shave bumps or whatnot, you are making it worse. Let your skin HEAL. Herpes bumps DO NOT go away the same day. Listen and hear that.
What you are doing is called catastrophizing. It's part of anxiety. You did something you feel is terrible and have all this guilt. You start imagining the very worst things that could happen, because of course, you did the very worst thing you can imagine, so of course the consequences will be the very worst ones they can be, because part of you feels like you deserve them. You are seeking information on the internet that confirms these fears, and your brain isn't allowing you to take in information that may prove your fears wrong.
You got a blow job for a few minutes. Chances are good that you did not get herpes from this event.
Yes, you feel horrible about this because you are married and your wife is pregnant. However, please understand that we have science, and we know that herpes only does certain things.
If you only test for hsv1 at 6 weeks, you will have no way of knowing if you already have oral hsv1, therefore protecting you from getting it genitally from this woman.
What you need to do:
1 - Get counseling and talk to your doctor about anxiety
2 - Get tested for hsv1 now
3 - Stop shaving your genital area
4 - Stop looking up crap on the internet
5 - Get counseling and talk to your doctor about anxiety (in case you missed it in #1)
So I gone to A doctor today, and I didn't felt comfortable at all , and he was not talking scientifically !!!!
I told him what happened with me and he showed no interest in what I was saying , all what he cared about is if I was in pain from anything ...
He screened my penis and said that nothing was there , he checked the penis opening and diagnosed it with inflammation and without asking for any tests he told me that I need to have 2 needles of something I forget it's name which as he said , will protect me from transmiting the inflammation to prostatitis .
He didn't asked about days , about how much I was since exposure, and I asked him for urine test so then he ordered it for me .
Then I told him about the diseases that I red that would transmit by oral sex , but he was talking in general about sex intercourse , nothing specific, no knowledge of window period of anything, I asked him about herpes and no answer .
Then he wrote these tests for me:
1- HSV IgG IGM
2- HBSAg and HCV !!
3- HIV 1+2
I was like shocked about this , I kinda lost hope with this doc. , so I asked him for why he wrote HIV test !!
Is it could transmit , then he said it's for what you red on the internet, and he said at last : stop reading on the internet .
I really don't know what to do right now , I am waiting for urine test which I will share it's results with you here , and I am going to make HSV 1&2 IgG test only for now , today is the 33th after exposure .
Urine Analysis :
UR Color : Yellow
Ur Character : HAZY
Ur pH: 6.0
Ur Reaction : ACID
Ur Specific Gravity : 1.015
Ur Nitrite: Negative
Ur Protein: Negative
Ur Glucose : Negative
Ur Ketones: Negative
Ur Bilirubin: Negative
Ur Blood : Negative
Rbc/UL : 1 - Range : 0-3
Wbcw/UL : 3 Units : /UL Range : 0-10
And he gave me these :
Diflucan 150 mg Fluconazole - 2 boxes 1 capsule each
One now and the other after week
Ciprodar 500- ciprofloxacin - 10 film coated Tablets
1 capsule twice everyday
Flagyl 500mg - metronidazole - oral use - 14 film-coated tablets
1 capsule 3 times everyday
And I did HSV 1&2 IgG and The results will came out tomorrow after 24 hours from now .
Any Ideas and advice .
I got HSV 1&2 IgG test Resaults and it came Negative for HSV1 and Negative for HSV2 , at day #33 since Exposure .
Waiting for you Auntijessi .