I'm glad. If you want to be more certain, test 4 months from any possible exposure.
Terri
I was tested 4 weeks after the 1st exposure. I want to say symtoms began just before the 2nd exposure but unsure. I am currently around 8 weeks past exposure. Everything seems to be cleared up at the moment. finally !!!
I can see why you have herpes as a concern. Some of the symptoms that you describe could be herpes related, yes. Have you been to see a health care provider when you had these symptoms present? That's the best thing to do here, most certainly. You've got things kind of coming and going quickly, so it would be important to try to be seen when you have an area that looks concerning to you on your skin.
Condoms reduce the risk of transmitting herpes by about 30% overall, so they are useful, but not perfect. In the meanwhile, keep waiting for good timing for the antibody test. If you want to test again at 3-4 months, and you are negative for both, then I think you can consider yourself uninfected. From your post, I can't tell exactly how long after the exposure you got tested - was it four weeks after exposure or after symptoms should up?
Terri