So your partner has both HSV2 and HIV?
I dont know is the issue. This was a co-worker whom claims to have been tested for HIV and other STDs and was negative in January. She has had exposures since (says they were protected sex and unprotected oral). But you cant go by someone elses word - got to take matters into my own hands and go from there.
Maybe she's just as concerned about having had sex with you.
Oral sex is low risk for transmission. HSV2 especially doesn't transmit that way well at all.
So you went to the doctor, but you don't believe what the doctor told you? Is that what you're saying?
Dr handsfield has already answered this question for you. We certainly can't top his advice.