Hello, a question regarding a possible infection.

[KB10108]

Ok so I have hsv 1 (cold sores), I had sex with a girl about a week ago. I was using protection and we did kiss but I didn't go in slobbing or using tongue action (because of my condition), more smooching while she was kissing me a bit more rough but no tongue action. I did not have an out break or anything. We had sex twice that night with protection, Now I noticed that one of the condoms I used was expired (by a month specifically) and the other one wasn't. Ok cool, so 4 days later she feels a cold/ stomach hurts nausea which I start to worry about. Could it be possible I gave her the virus? I feel really bad and she told me she started feeling this way after eating a steak on the third day. Please grace or life respond ;(

[Life360_Dave]

She should have a herpes test to confirm her status of hsv1 also so you dont have any worry issues being with her.

[KB10108]

What would you make of the girls cold/stomach ache nausea? Like I said I didn't have any ob's or we didn't kiss profoundly basically smooching.

[KB10108]

Ok, so the only way I would be able to have it down there would be if it's hsv 2 then? Which I have been tested negative for.

[Life360_Dave]

Getting the same in different is next to impossible if possible at all. Most that get it acquired it in both areas at the same time before antibodies were established.

[KB10108]

We didn't have oral sex, just smooching. Is it possible to have both hsv 1 orally and down there? I have asked this question before, but never knew if I had it down there or if it was actually possible, I for sure do have cold sores though.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi if you only have oral hsv1 you could not give her vaginal hsv1 from sex, the risk would be from giving her oral sex.