hello-
a few months ago i started dating a girl with genital HSV-1. things got serious for a while, but we've recently taken the relationship to a place where it can potentially be non-exclusive—dating others if the opportunity comes along. i tested negative for Herpes before we started dating and have yet to be tested since we began having sex.
my question is: how do i handle dating outside of this current "relationship" in terms of disclosing i currently have a sex partner with an STI? even if i get tested and find out i'm still negative, does that mean i have to disclose the possibility of getting it, however rare as it may be, to every potential partner once i get to date 2 or date 3?
on a side note, can anyone tell me what the chances are of getting oral herpes from performing oral sex on a girl with genital herpes-with/without suppression therapy, with/without a dental dam?
thanks a lot for your help!
nycurious