Regardless of weather or not you touched your partner, there's no safe sex with herpes, only safer sex. I'm going to assume you have hsv2 genitally and lay down some statistics.
With antiviral therapy , condom use and avoidance of sexual activity while having symptoms, male to female transmission is about as likely as getting pregnant with a condom, around 2 to 4 percent.
It sounds like you're doing the right things and doing everything you can to protect your partner. What you've described would not put her at a greater or less risk for transmission. Hope this helps!