Hsv primary outbreaks when they occur it's between 3-10 days from exposure.
We are. What you have te realize is how rare whitlow is. The old school dentists we most at risk because they had their fingers in peoples mouths all day and were not wearing gloves. The chances she had it are really zero.
Again whitlow is nasty and very painful and she wouldn't be rubbing you!!
You could have a thousand such exposures and my stance would be the same
Hi, no you cannot get herpes from a handjob when there are no visable finger sores at the time.
Your risk from a hand job is zero. Herpes whitlow which is hsv on a finger is very very rare and only transmits the virus when there is an outbreak. Whitlow is very painful so I doubt she gave you a happy ending with an outbreak. Again very very rare so I highly doubt she would have it. Handjobs are safe sex. As far as her boobs touching your penis. This is again a no risk event.
You did not contract hsv or any other std from this encounter.
Hope this helps put your mind at ease