I am really sorry for being an inconvenience, but I was wondering if you'd be able to tell me what i should do. I had unprotected sex on the 21st. We did oral as well. He had no signs of an outbreak as well. He did not ejaculate. however, he pre-cummed. I also showered a bit after as well. That night my nose was a tad runny and before I was having hot flashes and headaches. (not sure if it was due to my bc or allergies) that night i fell asleep at my cousin's house near the beach. It was very cold and i slept with my mouth open. The next day i felt tired and my throat was congested a bit and we went drinking and bike riding as well. The next day I had the chills and my throat felt more constricted and i had a little more trouble breathing. The day after i had some back aches and sore throat, very little coughing, chills and i think a fever because i woke up in a sweat, then i slept it off with some tylenol, cough drops and some flu drinks. I then started to read up on what it could be. I'm not sure if it's herpes or some sinus infection(have a lot of the same symptoms as sinusitis) or even the cold. I went to the doctors 2 days after that and did not have the flu or strep throat. she said it was the cold (also had post nasal drip and other cold symptoms). I got blood tested for HIV and herpes after and tested negative 11 days after swab test 4 days after. I currently get random headaches, coughing a lot with phlegm, sneezing, chest somewhat hurts, my nose somewhat runs or is extremely dry. my eyes somewhat burn, and occasionally my skin (butt/anus, arms, shoulders, neck, and etc) and joints hurt or feel warm. As for my vagina, it feels a little weird somewhat itchy sometimes warm but i believe thats due to the dry sex/shaving/period and my anus might hurt because he almost penetrated. But there is no foul smell, discharge, or burning when i urinate. I do also have restroom problems but i seem to always do. Plus, right now my skin is really dry, so i feel like the skin is due to that as well. I have no sores or anything. I'm not sure if it's my extreme hypochondriac self again creating these symptoms (from reading all of these stories and etc) or it's really something to worry about. Thank you for your time, I really appreciate it!