I have beem married for 8 years and recently divorced. I have a boyfriend for the last 2 and a half months. We got drunk two week ago and got a little wild in bed. we started having anal sex and than he stop and without cleaning put it back in my viagina. Before I could say anything. Two days later I started iching relly bad, I bought some over the counter yeast infection med. and used that. I was rubbing myself alot and had a sore on outside which I figured was from all the rubbing. Than I started running a fever and getting chills. I figured it was a bacterial infection and decided to go into my midwife. I told her what was going on and she started examing me. She said I have herpes and that my cervix does not look good. I lost it. She also said there is a lot of watery fluid up there, which I have noticed the last two days. I went and told my boyfriend and asked if he has been with anyone. He has not in four months, I have not in three, how could we get herpes. Today he went to doctor and hes doctor said he has a staph infechtion on is groin and base of hes penis. Can you get blisters in your vagina from a staph? Or do you think I do have herpes?