Before i continue, it is important to state that as far as i am aware i do not have HSV 2 or HSV 1. However, 3 nights ago i had unprotected sex with a girl i have been dating for a while. We had sex three times in the space of roughly 8 hours. The following morning, i noticed a small crack/cut on my foreskin. It was black in color and was and still is painless. Now, I'm aware that my symptoms can not possibly suggest that i'm experiencing a primary outbreak after being exposed to her. Firstly, because i'm certain she does not have herpes, but most importantly, i know symptoms would not appear a few hours after exposure. However i am concerned that the vigorous sex has triggered an outbreak from an infection acquired from a previous unknown exposure. This was the first time i have had unprotected sex for two years. In those two years, i have also had protected sex twice. I have never had any symptoms to suggest herpes in the past, but i am worried that i may have skipped a symptomatic primary outbreak and this is a secondary outbreak with visible symptoms. With regards to my symptoms, it has been 3 days now and the small crack/cut on my foreskin has not changed in appearance from what i can observe, and it is still painless. I also have no other symptoms.
My main queries would be...
If vigorous sexual intercourse was to trigger an outbreak, how soon would symptoms appear? As soon as mine have, or longer?
Do my symptoms sound like herpes or just irritation?
Is it possible to skip the primary outbreak and then experience a very mild secondary outbreak later down the line?
Thanks for hearing me out.