So I have herpetic whitlow. Not officially diagnosed but I fingered a girl who then told me she had herpes, I have gotten little blisters on my hands a couple of times since then, doesnt take much to put two and two together. Recently, I had sex with someone else. I explained my hand condition, as I understood it, it was safe for me to finger her as long as I had no symptoms of an outbreak and no cuts on my hands/fingers. Well I ended up fingering her and having sex with her. About two nights ago, we had sex again, part of it was really rough, she was kinda dry and for a while we were in a position that was just causing a lot of friction on my penis. I almost made her stop because it was kind of starting to hurt. Today, I noticed some small bumps and a bigger one on one side of my penis. I was really concerned and started examining them. I squeezed the small bumps to see if they would burst, none of them did, but they turned extremely red right after, looked like blood underneath the skin. The bigger one, after a lot of squeezing, discharged a little bit of liquid, somewhat like what comes out of a whitehead after you pop it, no white stuff. It did not turn red like the smaller ones, it has kind of just gone away since. Given that I have herpetic whitlow, I know what it looks like on me, the small bumps didnt really look like it, the big one somewhat did and the fact that it discharged something really worries me. Is it possible that these bumps are from the rough sex and all that friction? What is the likelihood that I gave the girl my herpes from fingering her? I had no cuts on my hands, my nails are somewhat short but I see nowhere that I could have exchanged fluids through my fingers. As far as I know she hasnt had any symptoms but I know that might not mean a whole lot. I plan on getting tested asap but that will be in a few days, in the mean time I'd love any insight into my situation! Thanks for reading!