The IgM test is useless, so many false positives. And also, in the person who has established HSV 2, it may not be positive at all, or may be positive from time to time. The IgG is the accurate test for HSV 2 infection.
Your combination of test results (first negative IgG then positive swab test) does indicate that you have new infection, yes. You are positive on your swab test and negative on your antibody test, which means that not enough time has gone by for antibody to have developed, but you do have virus present on your skin.
It is possible that he didn't know he was infected, but getting the wrong test after being told which test was correct? And if he read that IgM is present with new infection, but he just happened to order that test?
If he is wondering about my credentials, he should know that I have articles published in the New England Journal of Medicine, Journal of the American Medical Association, Lancet, Journal if Infectious Disease. Twenty-eight articles in all in the best journals.
And if that isn't enough for him to get to know my credentials? You can tell him I was the expert witness in a case in Oregon where a dentist was ordered to pay 925K to a partner he had sex with, infected (with documentation like you) her with HSV 2, because he didn't tell her before they had sex that he had herpes, even though he knew he had it. He could Google this.
I'm sorry about your infection. I don't know if he knew he had herpes or not, but if he did, he clearly should have told you before having sex with you.
Terri
I'm not sure why these results are not copying over in the message (they show up when copied and pasted but then don't stick) but the results came in at .91 negative.
Sorry, IgM results didn't copy properly; they are as follows (in relation to initial question):
HSV, IgM I/II Combination
HSV, IgM I/II Combination
1.09