I had unprotected vaginal and oral with a girl of unknown background back in January. The next morning I had a thin red line under my lower lip that resolved in a couple days, no pain no itch.
Since then I've been worried about all sorts of things.
Here are the tests I've had:
1/30 Chlamydia PCR NEGATIVE
2/20 Gonorrhea PCR NEGATIVE
4/4-ish HIV and Herpes NEGATIVE
Herpeselect IGG <.9 for both HSV 1 and 2
I'm still worried. March 22 I had an abscess near my perineum recur. It first appeared back in September but never ruptured, just went away after about a week. This time it ruptured and the doc put me on Bactrim. I had what I feel was an allergic reaction. Fever, rigors, rash etc.
2 days after my risk, wife and I have relations. Next day I had a little itch/feeling in my urethra. This prompted all the anxiety and testing. Came back clean so I went on with life. I have had a continuous irritation at my meatus.
Doc looked and wasnt concerned. It doesn't hurt but its there
My abscess has come to a head again. Ive been, for the last 2 weeks, having some pain/sensaions on the inside of my left thigh. (the abscess is on the left side of my perineum) and some odd pain/sensations in my penis. This has been pretty much constant for the last month+.
For a little bit after my risk, my wife had an itchy vulva, not constant but usually between her periods. No other symptoms. She stopped taking her birth control and it subsided.
Today she has a sore throat, says its pretty bad. Not running a fever, no chills, aches or flu like symptoms. I'm scared to death that I've given her something.