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Leg/Butt Pain. Muscles Twitching> Herpes Related??

I'm a 26 yr old male that has never had any health issues or problems in my entire life beside the occasional cold/flu that everyone else gets. That all changed a little over 4 months ago.

Had brief unprotected oral sex from a girl i met the day before and about 40 secs of brief unprotected intercourse. The rest was protected sex. 6 days later while driving, I began experiencing short sharp random stinging pains in my groin mostly above the right testicle area but the pain didn't feel like it was from the testicles.More like deeper in the groin. Also, my perineum area felt swollen like I was sitting on something near my rectum. 1 day later i got a sore throat and my neck lymph nodes felt slightly swollen. 2 days after that, I noticed a raised bump on my penis shaft on the bottom right side. It looked like it maybe an ingrown hair cause it didn't hurt and it never turned to a blister but I have never seen a bump on my penis like that before. Also, when i would shower, I would feel a sting in one area on the rim of my penis head when the water from the shower head touched it but there was never any sign of redness, bumps, cuts, or abrasion whenever i checked it.This weird pain lasted in the penis head rim for almost 2wks. Went to get tested for all STDs/HIV and all tests came back Negative. I know 1 week is too soon for HSV and HIV test but both were negative so I had no previous exposure. Urine sample, clean. Girl also said she was clean on everything but i'm not convinced she had herpes testings. Doctor did turn and cough test on me and said I might have a hernia. Doctor looked at bump and thought, ingrown hair or irritation. Prescribed 10 days of Doxy as a precaution if I had any bacterial infections. The bump went away in about 3-1/2 days. Had a surgeon rule out hernia and thought pain was due to some type of strain.
Then got sick with cold-like symptoms that lasted almost 2 weeks. Very rare for me. Was treated for sinus infection. During this time, i developed the random burning pain up and down both legs and buttocks, sometimes in arms and back. Then the muscle twitchings started. mainly in legs when i would sit and relax. Every couple days or so I would notice very tiny tiny white head like pimples on my penis shaft that would last for like maybe a few hrs or so maybe 1 day tops. Never more than one at a time. They looked just like pimples you get on your arms or face but then again, I've never seen this on my penis before. Ever.
Got blood tested again for HSV and HIV at 6 wks. Tests came back Negative again. Showed doctor one of the tiny whitehead pimples and he said it wasn't herpes.
The random pain in my body, mainly in the legs, groin, penis, and buttocks have been on and off ever since. I seem to get a pain in my penis minutes after i urinate every now and then but never while urinating. Urologist said I may have prostatitis but all my urine samples have been clean for bacterial infections. The swelling in my perineum was gone by then but I still feel the random groin pains.

Still convinced that I had something wrong with me, I went and got tested again at 12wks. HSV 1 and 2 were again Negative. All herpes tests have been Herpes Select Type specific IgG. I began to believe that i didn't get herpes but then the pains would come back and change all of that. I then got another bump like the one i described in the very beginning near the base of the penis by the pubic hair region which again didn't hurt. Doctor saw it and said she was certain it wasn't herpes and was probably folliculitis/ clogged hair follicle. Bump completely went away in about 5 days.

It has now been almost 5 months past expose and i still don't feel normal. Some days i would have a day or two of little to no symptoms but then it would all come right back. I don't know what to think. This issue has been driving me crazy. If its not herpes, then what is it? The bumps i got don't point to herpes but all the nerve pain and constant non-stop muscle twitching mainly in my legs seems to say that it may be nerve damage from herpes. I have done tons of searching on the web and I have seen ppl saying they got leg twitchings from herpes but all the experts don't seem to think its related. I take all sorts of vitamins so, i can't have any deficiencies. And i had an xray of my back to rule out spinal abnormalities. My next step will be an MRI of the spine but I'm almost certain it will show up normal.

I try to live a normal as possible life so i won't get stressed over this but the symptoms won't let me move forward. Anybody experienced these issues but never tested positive for herpes or any type of virus? Sorry for the long post but i wanted to give everyone specifics of what I'm going through. I actually left out way more information but that's just how complicated these past 4-1/2 months have been for me. Any help is appreciated.
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I would like to pass on what i think might be the answer PLEASE try and let me know if it works for you. Get Acetaminophen 350mg you can get at almost any drug store let me know if this works for you. Take it straight not with any other aspirin. This ingredient is in Tylenol   But get the pure stuff.
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I'm in the same boat mate ! 3 months and still no answers ,
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Hi guys, posted 2 years ago, experience the same as pretty much most of you. Everything & I mean everything is negative. Anyway, recently been reading about olive leaf extract & it's amazing benefits. I will begin taking this in the new year to see if the symptoms subside. I was very foolish, cleared of stds & took their word for it, now my girlfriend experiences similar symptoms. Someone needs to give the medical professionals a kick up the butt. I'd greatly appreciate honesty from them, something along the line of, "well I can't say for certain, we just don't know enough st the moment" as opposed to their nonsensical ********, you're fine, it's in your head crap!
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olive leaf didn't help me. also cause upset stomach. proceed with caution. definitely take with food
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I too have experienced these same symptoms within 2 days after a sexual encounter. I have had fevers/ headaches, numbness in fingers, shooting pain at buttocks and down my legs, inflammation in my pelvis, swollen lymph nodes, chest pains and what seemed like a cut in the corner of my mouth that has scabbed. I also had a cut in my vaginal area last night though it is better today after having placed coconut oil on it last night. I'm also noticing sensitivity around my elbow and ankle. I went and got tested last week and my std tests have shown up negative.
Any answers for this would be great!
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Has anyone gotten any answers to these weird / after sex /. Herpes like /. But every doc sees you and days it's not bit can't tell you what it is.  ?!!?
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I am more or less experiencing the same symptoms though no lesions or blisters, no lymph node swelling, sore throat or anything, I have general weakness and tingling in the same location of which i had the initial single lesion.. no experts agree but the symptom is happening.
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I know this conversation was a long time ago, but did you ever figure out the cause bamboozled?
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