Hi,
I have been in a committed relationship for over 15 years and am sad to say I strayed. I visited a 'massage' parlor where a I received oral with a condom and then we had intercourse where she was on top. It was brief, she started to grind her pelvis on top of me at which point I lost my erection. It appeared as if the condom may have come off when she got off of me but I'm not sure.
4 weeks after the incident i had a full panel of STD tests run via stdcheck.com and came back negative except for a value of 1.5 for HSV-2 (HSV-1 was negative). I don't believe I have ever been tested before so I have no baseline for comparison. I waited 12 more days and repeated the test with the same lab and got a result of 1.7.
To my knowledge I have never had any HSV-2 symptoms. After the incident I was scanning myself pretty closely and did notice I was a little red in an area above my penis in the pubic hair area, but no bumps or anything like that.
I have been doing a lot of research online. I believe (perhaps incorrectly) -
1. My risk of exposure was low due to this being one incident, with a condom in use
2. The low IGG value could be a. false positive, b. Indicative of a previous infection, c. Mean I am just starting to seroconvert from a new infection.
I suppose it is possible my partner and I are infected and just don't know it, but I have never had any symptoms so I believe B is unlikely. I would rather not share this with my significant other as I deeply regret it and never plan to do this again, and don't want cause great havoc in our relationship. That being said I don't want to put anyone at undue risk.
I realize that I can't get 100% clarification here but I was wondering -- if I get retested in 2 weeks, and get another low positive value would it be less likely that I am recently infected (logic being, antibody levels should be rising) or is that just hopeful thinking?
Thank you.