I'm glad you followed up on that, good for you! I'll bet the yeast medicine will take care of everything. Best to you.
Terri
Well I went to Planned Parenthood and she did a swab and found yeast. She also agreed that herpes would not persist this long. So I am going to try that treatment and she said we will do further testing if that doesn't work. So I feel a little better. Still concerned though.
I agree that some people seroconvert between 3 and 4 months. But there are also some (you stated around 5%) that take 6 months (and beyond). I don't see why most people are advised that 3 months is sufficient! I don't see how anyone could be confident in a 3 month result?
Its good that you are going to the clinic tomorrow to be tested. This could be yeast as well, but herpes normally doesn't go on and on. Let me know how the visit goes tomorrow, OK?
Terri
Also to the above posting, I think the cracks in my skin started before the exposure because I found a receipt for a cream I bought to relieve it before then. Would herpes make the situation worse? Because I read that herpes could cause cracks in the skin. So it has been going on for over a month and a half. I am going to the clinic on Monday to get tested.
One more thing which I didn't think about until now. About a month ago, like a week or two after the exposure, I started getting little cracks between my vagina and anus. They itch and bleed and hurt when I wipe. When I put vaseline on it, it seems to get better but when I leave it alone it gets much worse and now I have several cracks in my skin. These have occurred before in the same place when I know I did not have herpes, but it seems worse this time. Could this be herpes?
I think a few people will serconvert between 3 and 4 months. I'm not clear exactly how many, but some will. If you want extra reassurance, test at 4 months instead of 3.
Terri
So what would be the difference if I got tested at 3 months as opposed to 4? I might be a little uneasy if I tested at 3 just because it says 3-4 months.
I don't think you need testing for this encounter. However, if you've never been tested for herpes and have had sex in your life, you might want to get a baseline antibody test, just to see where you actually stand with infection. No, one month is not longer enough - 3-4 months is better if you do decide you need to get tested because of this encounter.
Terri
Should I get tested? Would one month be enough time to get a trusted result??
Genital to genital rubbing can transmit herpes, yes, though that is less likely than with intercourse. A one time encounter also is lower risk than repeated encounters. If you've had no symptoms since the rubbing, that's a good sign.
Terri
So if we were naked together one time and our genitals rubbed against each other, should I worry that I have already gotten it? I was careful not to let him get too much friction.
I'm sure he doesn't mean to be deceptive. However, there are several things wrong with this picture (or potentially wrong). Unless every person he has had sex with has subsequently been been tested for HSV 2, there is no way to know for certain who has been infected and who has not. It is felt that virtually everyone who has HSV 2 infection genitally shed at some point - the frequency is not known for most people. We do know that medicines like acyclovir and valacyclovir reduce shedding and transmission.
I would recommend that he be on suppression daily and that you have him use condoms with intercourse to have the greatest impact on transmission reduction.
Terri