You are way overthinking this and this scenerio is far more than just a reach. Whitlow is very rare for a reason. Forget whitlow as you won't ever get it from casual contact.
This is a zero risk encounter. You will not contract hsv in such a manner. Even sharing a drink is no risk. Without kissing or oral sex hsv1 is not a concern
Hi Wrestler156, I really feel like you have nothing to worry about. I have been doing some extensive research on transmission and from what I read the herpes virus is contagious from direct contact. One website I read said that the virus does not survive long outside the body. I am not a Doctor just giving advice. If you’re that concerned the best thing to do is get tested.