Cold sores generally do go through a process yes, they move from blisters to ulcers to crusts and scabs to resolution.
Terri
Thanks!
Just one more question.. if the little spot does not get progressively worse or start to hurt does that mean that it is not a cold sore?
Thanks Again
If your girlfriend already has a history of having cold sores, it is very unlikely, though not impossible, that she would get HSV 1 genitally. It is possible that your symptom is oral herpes that might be new from kissing her or might be old from years ago and you just never recognized symptoms before, or maybe it isn't herpes, but rather a pimple? Hard to say, but in terms of her, she is probably OK if what you have is oral herpes.
Terri