I will gladly take a look at her test results if she hasn't posted them here already for a 2nd opinion. There are false positive issues so making sure she was tested properly and doesn't need additional confirmatory testing is never a bad idea.
As steph already pointed out - over all the risk of transmission is very low from female to male even with minimal precautions. To give you something to compare it to, the risk of pregnancy from real use of the pill is 8% - so she's far more likely to get pregnant than for you to contract hsv2 from her.
keep asking questions!
grace
oh btw this is a open/volunteer type forum, we are not doctors. apparently you have to pay to post questions there.
There is no risk from kissing or touching. Unless she has a cold sore on her face, then kissing isnt advised until the sore is healed. She could consider taking suppression therapy and that reduces the risk of transmitting it to you to 1% per year. Otherwise, with condoms only its about 4%. Honestly taking extreme measures seems uneccessary. Do you love her? If yes, then that should be all that matters. HSV2 is very common. Im assuming you were tested for both types?? What blood test was she given? IgM? IgG?