Should add that the penetration during sex only lasted 30 seconds max. ( a little embarrassing).we did try a few more times but I could not get hard again and never really was inside her again. Did "grind" a little and she did oral on me for about ten seconds.
your symptoms do not sound like genital herpes at all. at this point I'd see a dermatologist if they continue.
What about the test results being the same? Is that odd? Should I get retested?
not odd at all. I wouldn't bother retesting.
The doctor doesn't seem to really know what it is in my groin, but I do appear to have sebhorric dermatitis on my cheeks and eyebrows even though it is in the summer.
Should I be concerned that she won't get tested? She said she had all the other tests done but when i asked to see results she said no but that they were negative. I asked her to get herpes test done and she said She is confident she doesn't have it so she would not get tested. She said she is going to move in a positive direction. I am having trouble believing her.
The crease gets pretty sore and can hurt and burn off and on. There are tiny red bumps but some appear to be hair follicles. If this were to be herpes would me playing softball once a week cause the symptoms to stick around for a while?
no, playing sports wouldn't cause you to have herpes symptoms stick around.
most likely this is irritation or a fungal infection more than anything std related.
I know it is her choice and I asked earlier but should I be upset/worried that she won't get tested?
Ok does this definitely confirm that this is a fungal type issue and not herpes? Yesterday I was so busy that I did not shower and did not put on my cream. The burning was not there until really late at night but even then it was not severe. I even did a lot of hard labor in the yard. Plus the sebhorreic dermatitis (which by the way i have not been diagnosed with but have had similar incidents in past) seemed to do really well and I did not wash my face at all yesterday. Today took a shower this morning dried off forgot the cream but put on an hour later and the burning is back and my face is bad again this time moving to forehead and temple area. Could face stuff be herpes? When I get out of the shower there is a lot of dead skin around nostrils. It looks like I have wet flour on my nostrils when i get out of the shower.
I also have what appears to be a lot skin flakes on my eyebrow just above and around where the eyebrow and nose meet. I realize the Greek meaning of herpes but since i have had this for over two weeks close to three, maybe even longer, would herpes then "crawl" to my temples and forehead? Does it appear and pretty much stay put while there is an outbreak? Sorry for all the questions.
all you can do at this point is to continue to follow up with your provider and/or a dermatologist for your symptoms.
you'd have to ask your prior partner why she won't get tested. I couldn't even begin to guess her reasoning for not doing so.
Her reply is she is too busy and is going to move in a positive direction. Does not make me feel good.
Does herpes look like dry skin? It is all in my eyebrow hair and above my nose. Really flakes off when I wash with head and shoulders on my face.
Can herpes outbreaks have a good day and then a bad day? Like what I described above? Or does it hurt pretty much until it goes away?