Hi,
I have had HSV 1 since I was a child and barely get break outs any longer. I recently dated someone and may have given him HSV 1 genitally via oral sex. He had a break out but his doctor unfortunately only gave him antifungal meds and it eventually healed.I had no symptoms but was tested and tested negative. However, I didn't do enough research at the time, and only tested for HSV 2. After the breakout was gone, we had unprotected sex again, and he soon broke out again. This time I was itchy around the anal area, but nothing more. This time his doctor gave him meds for both chlamydia and herpes simultaneously. He didn't take a swab for testing. A month later he was tested for HSV 2 by a blood test and tested negative or inconclusive. But of course, he couldn't have HSV 2 from me, although it could be in his system from another partner. What I am worried about is whether I may have given it to him, and then he gave it to me in the genital region. Is there a chance of that?
How accurate are tests for genital HSV 1? Should I make him get a test for that?
This still won't solve my problem however because I still don't know whether I have been infected. And from my reading, I can't take a test to differentiate between HSV 1 oral and genital, correct? If I get tested, I'll probably just test positive for HSV-1 since it's been in my system for years.
I am now starting to date someone new and don't know how or what to tell him.
Please advise.