Ok thank you grace. 5 days after the encounter I got tested for gonorrhea,chlamydia, Hiv and syphillis. They all came back negative. I am going to test for HIV and syphillis at 6 weeks. Do you have any idea what this could be if it is not herpes?
you need to go and be seen. This doesn't sound like herpes but obviously something is going on.
also ask about follow up std testing too since it was unprotected sex.
grace