I've had two small herpes lesions in that past two years after being infected by my husband I think, who, we believe is asymptomatic. I am having an outbreak at the moment, which is by far the worst I have had, but it's strange because it doesn't fit really with the symptoms that I have been reading about. (I have no health insurance, so I'm just trying to figure this out on my own). I have one small lesion on my outer bottom right labia which lasted for about two weeks. It is now mostly closed and dried out, but a few days ago, this raised blotchy red rash started to spread over my entire lower vaginal and anal area. It is incredibly unbearably itchy (I'm going crazy), but there are no blisters or even bumps. Just that one small lesion that's almost closed up. I'm worried that I gave the rash to myself, in my effort to experiment with home remedies I've found online. I tried the baking soda paste thing last night, and woke up in the middle of the night with my vagina swollen to the size of a baseball and an itchy burning over my entire genital area that made me want to scream. is this kind of blotchy spreading rash and swelling without blisters a normal herpes symptom? What can i do for it? Thanks