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Risk in giving HJ

Hi,
I hope that you will have the time to answer my question.
I am a female and have never had sex of any kind - vaginal, anal or oral.
Over a year and a half ago I was kissing my boyfriend while both of us were fully clothed. He placed my hand on his penis and began to rub it. It was for a very short time - there were no fluids. I had no cuts on my hand.
I have had no signs of any STDs. However, I was unaware that STDs could possibly be transmitted in this way. Could an STD have been transmitted to my hand? Am I at risk for anything? Please help me, I am drowning in anxiety!!
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No risk
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Please understand that we are here to help but continuing to saying no risk is not going to change things. YOU had no risk!!
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*****risk
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so i still have 0 fish even though my hand was on his bare penis?
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This is impossible.

Take it from someone like you. I am in what is described as a low-risk situation and I know your anxiety.

But yours is no-risk. You can be sure you have nothing. Even though my situation is said to be low-risk, I would love to be in a situation as free of risk as you are.

Rest easy, relax, be good to yourself.
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I'm s sorry, I don't want to be annoying. I am just freaking out and I'm so worried that my life is over. I just worry because so many sites says that you can contact an std by giving a hand job? Why do you say it is impossible?
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101028 tn?1419603004
which still is not a risk for you.
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it was not through clothing though... he put my hand onto his penis
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101028 tn?1419603004


we call them sexually transmitted infections for a reason - it takes that kind of close and intimate naked contact and body fluid exchange to transmit them. Your hand on your bf's penis over a year ago is not a risk to you. Std's do not travel through clothing to infect you.
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are you sure?? why do they say that herpes and hpv can be transmitted in this way?
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3149845 tn?1506627771
Hi, you had absolutly NO risk for contracting STD from this. NONE
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