I'm wondering this too, because I have never seen an outbreak and my gyno told me she saw no evidence of me having internal outbreaks. I'm afraid of the same thing though.
This is a slippery slope but with never having an outbreak it hard to diagnose where hsv2 can be oral. Do you know what tests they gave you? Igg or igm?
if so what was your numerical value. This all can make a difference. If you have no idea and can't for some reason find out. Then I would get a type specific igg test. No igm tests.
There are a lot of Dr's that are not to swift in respect to hsv.
There is hsv 1 and hsv 2. Both of these can be contracted to the genitals. How where you diagnosed with herpes? How do you know you genital herpes if you've never had an outbreak?