So on 3/9/19 I went to a massage parlor and initially decided to go through with getting a happy ending. However, after less than a minute I decided not to complete it. So I would say for no more than 1 minute, the massage therapist gave me a handjob with oil. During the 1 minute, she did grab my hand, lifted her shirt, and I caressed her breast. Nothing else sexual occurred.
The next day, I had fever like symptoms that lasted 2 days. No other symptoms until the evening of 4/6/19.
My partner was masturbating me through my boxer briefs for about 3-5 minutes when I felt a burning sensation. I ignored this and put a condom on. While I was putting the condom on, the burning increased. The next morning the upper right half of my shaft was swollen and during the next few days, blisters started to appear right below my penis head. The blisters were non painful, and I have not been itchy down there.
I went to the doctor on 4/11 and he told me it looks like Herpes lesions. So a swab test on the lesions were performed. He told me I should get results in 1-2 weeks.
I’m so stressed that I have herpes. I’ve read on here that you can’t get herpes by a handjob, but I have the symptoms.