So first things first.
Your result for hsv2 is super low, and you really should get that confirmed. Anything under a 3.5 has potential to be a false positive. What prompted you to test? Did you have symptoms?
How long after the encounter did you test?
Second, if you do have herpes, you will not die from it. It's mostly a minor nuisance.
Third, there is no way for a doctor to tell who will have frequent outbreaks and who won't. Your test result can't predict that.
Fourth, if you get genital herpes from oral sex, you would then have genital herpes type 1. The number indicates the strain of the virus, not the location. If you have hsv1, it is hsv1 no matter where you have it.
So I don't know if you have herpes or not. You likely need more blood tests, and I need more info. :)
Im pretty sure you just got herpes, and you certainly wont die from it. Don't worry its actually pretty common and easily manageable!
What was your exposure?