Thank you for your comment. You make a good point that this does not fit any standard STD pattern. My concern is an unconventional HSV presentation. The full STD kit is necessary to move forward. I wish we could solve this mystery sooner. The part that confuses me is a lack of pain or soreness at the tip where the majority of action seems focused. If one demonstrates very timely dry skin (ambiguous ulcers I suppose), wouldn't it still be tender, pretty sensitive or sting with urine?? Again, thanks for your time.
Most STDs do not reveal symptoms like you describe. If you are having unprotected sex a great thing to do is mutually test for all STDs including HSV and compare notes before proceeding any further.