What is the chance of herpes from unprotected oral sex?

[herpes420]

This is the first time I have done something like this. I went to a strip club, where a stripper gave me a blow job. I still don't understand why she didn't use a condom, maybe she didn't have one. She sucked my dick for about a minute before I came, my dick didn't even get completely hard in that 1 minute. Then she stopped, cleaned my dick with tissue, and her mouth with another tissue. Then I sucked her **** and nipples for almost 15 minutes. She didn't look like she had any outbreaks, cuts, sores, etc. We had a lot of skin to skin contact, like me touching her back, kissing her tummy, neck etc. Never touched or kissed her privates. She didn't kiss or touch mine either, after the initial 1 minute of blowjob. It's been 2 days since then, and I haven't noticed any symptoms, although I'm sure it's too early.

My question is, what is my risk ratio/percentage of contracting any kind of herpes?? Will I definitely get herpes if she has it?? Any other diseases? How soon can I get tested, and what tests should I do? How long before I would see any symptoms, if I'm symptomatic that is, and what symptoms should I be watching out for? It's killing me as to why she didn't use a condom, and all the skin/mouth/dick contact is definitely going to get me herpes :((
I got tested for herpes in past like 6 months back and I definitely haven't had it.

Thanks for all your responses in advance!

[feelingundone]

I am confident you didn't get hsv orally because the odds of her having hsv on her breasts are astronomically low. Like being struck by lightning during a shark attack low. Not a realistic possibility at all.
The odds you would get hsv1 from her giving oral is so very low I wouldn't be concerned. First she would have to have it. Then she would have to be shedding the virus. Even if all this was happening the odds are still very high you wouldn't be infected as most encounters while this was happening do not lead to transmission. Is it impossible? No but the odds are very very small. If the virus was this contagious everyone would have it.

[herpes420]

Male 32yrs; Unprotected oral was performed on me 5 months ago; 12 days later got burning on penis, and saw tiny cluster of papules on foreskin. Doctor who saw it swabbed & checked with KOH for fungus etc. Did urine culture, Gonorrhea, Syphilis - all negative. So he was 99% sure it was herpes, and started me on Valtrex for 10 days. This first outbreak lasted for about 3 days. The second outbreak happened about 2 months later, I saw a small red dot, like a lesion, which turned into a white blister in a day and went away in another day or so. In the last 5 months I've had another 5 outbreaks total, almost every 3 weeks, and all of these have the following symptoms: slight tingling, burning on penis, general discomfort in groin area for couple days, slight redness on glans, with couple red dots and they never turn into white blisters and just go away within couple days. I got HSV I/II IgM at 14 days which was at 0.91 so was flagged as equivocal. I got HSV I & II IgG & IgM at 1 mnth after the incident and all was negative. I got the same test done at 4.5 mnths (19wks) after the incident (16wks after stopping the Valtrex course) & still it's all negative (incl. HIV). I have not taken any anti-virals since the first time 5 months ago. I have taken some herbs and supplements to build my immunity. I found out at 4.5 months that I am positive for CMV (8U/ml), EBV (250U/ml), and HHV6 (value: 20) - although I never got tested for these before so no idea if it was because of this last incident or I've always had it. What are the chances that I do have HSV I / II but don't have enough antibodies? How long does it take in worst case for herpes antibodies to be detected in an IgG test? should I wait longer and take test? should I take WB test (how to order the kit & video consult with you?) or I don't have herpes then I'm curious what's causing my outbreaks? I don't have blisters when I get the outbreaks but can I get the red dots I get on the glans swabbed for herpes?

[feelingundone]

The odds of hsv1 from receptive oral sex when no cold sores are present (if she has oral hsv1) is very very small. So small I wouldn't be overly concerned at all. NGU or gonnerhia is also possible although just like hsv the odds are very very small. You can test anytime after a few days for those with a simple urine test.
The rest of the activities are no risk events so no worries.

[Life360_Dave]

Retest at 8 weeks to confirm. I say this as there could have been a lab mixup with your swab test. I just cant believe you contracted hsv2 from oral sex. I can see hsv1 but not 2. We dont use igm

[herpes420]

HSV 1 and 2 IgG - negative
HSV 1/2 Combo IgM - positive

[Life360_Dave]

I will say this that the odds the girl at the strip club had oral hsv2 is very rare and since oral hsv2 rarely sheds, meaning the virus is on the surface with out any visible sores, she would have to had open active lip blisters to pass it to you and i doubt she would give you oral sex with lip blisters as the pain would have been to much. Im of the opinion youve had this from before but the blood test will also shed some light and please let us know the results.

[herpes420]

They swabbed the white dots on foreskin, and they said it's hsv2. The urine culture is negative so definitely no bacterial infections. I took the hsv1 and 2 blood test and should have the result in a day or two. Given the lesions just happened after this incident and the fact I haven't had any sexual contact in like 6 months and that I was negative 6 months back, I'm 100% confident my IgG test will come negative, since this herpes infection is from this incident.

Anyone who is well experienced in this area care to comment about HIV? Although I have pretty much lost hope and accepted that I'm HIV positive as well. Whatever the Lord thinks is best for me!

[Life360_Dave]

Hi what area did they swab and was it for hsv1 or hsv2? If infact you are positive then have a blood test now for both hsv1 and 2 and if its positive also then youve had it for quite some time as antibodies would not show up from a week ago incident and if its negative then it would be recent.

[herpes420]

I got a swab test done and it has come back positive for herpes. I'm devastated. My only question is if she has herpes with open sores/lesions/ulcers in mouth and has HIV, what are the chances I got it too? I have read the risk is very low, almost impossible, but then the risk of me getting herpes was also low and I still got it :((

For anyone reading this, I hope it's not too late for you like me. This was my one and only time of unprotected oral in my life and I still got infected! No matter what the odds say, once is enough to get it. Please, it's not at all worth it, don't do it! I so wish I could go back in time and not do it!!

[herpes420]

The redness and burning is actually where the foreskin connects the base of penis to glans.

[herpes420]

Today is the 10th day since the incident. This morning I started having a burning sensation at the tip of my penis. There's actually no burning when I pee, but it burns anytime I'm not peeing. At times it was extremely painful and then very mild. I don't see any discharge from the penis, nor any foul smell. Although for whatever reason my buttcreek seems slightly moist since last few days, not sure if there is a discharge from rectum. I examined my penis and nearby area thoroughly to check for lesions. I do see some redness here and there on the glans, but can someone tell me what a lesion would look like? Is it on the glans? Is it painful? I'm worried that the redness on glans might be herpes lesions. And it's probably the lesions that are causing the burning sensation.

I remember reading that in Gonnorhea or NGU/UTI/Urethritis, the burning always happens while peeing and doesn't come and go. So in my case I think this is due to herpes.

[herpes420]

Thanks feelingundone. Sorry I absolutely don't mean to be a pain but whenever you get a chance if you can explain why you think I didn't contract any herpes from this exposure, I'd be eternally grateful.

[feelingundone]

Sores, bumps...etc are common in the mouth. Hsv lesions inside the mouth are not. Not to mention you were at no risk from oral hsv from your exposure.

[feelingundone]

No. You did not contract oral hsv from this exposure.

[herpes420]

Thanks for the prompt response, feelingundone.
At day 3 after the incident, I have a very small, painless bump in the roof of my mouth. I can feel it with my tongue, but can barely see it. Today is day 4 and the bump hasn't changed. I don't have any other symptoms so far.
Could this bump be the start of a herpes outbreak? I'm very scared I may have contracted herpes :((

[herpes420]

**** = tittss/breasstss