http://www.ashastd.org/herpes/herpes_learn_oralherpes.cfm is terrific info on oral herpes and how it is transmitted.
as an adult, you are incredibly unlikely to transmit herpes to another adult anyway other than romantic type kisses. It's easier to transmit to an infant or toddler thru non-kissing means but not to another adult.
You need to wait 4 months after possible infection to get a type specific herpes igg blood test done.
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