I'm uncircumcised btw. And my penis head was out bit during humping. Whether I was between her legs or on her big belly sitting on her, I really do not remember. Do I have a reason to worry for myself and my family?
I forgot to add. This hapened 6 days back on Saturday evening. Got fever on monday till Thursday. That's why I freaked out. Today i will see a doctor.
Thank you in anticipation. I hope I posted correctly in right forum. Sorry for any mistake. I humbly apologise.
this isn't a real risk for any std at all. really no reason to be worried. don't confuse your guilt over what happened with risk.
Thank you. I will be admitted in hospital for my bad fever. Doctor suspects a viral/ bacterial infection.
Yes it's really my guilt that was eating me. I take it that even if the csw touched her genitalia and sores perhaps (infectious fluids), and then after 30seconds or so touched my penis during hand job - my penis which had 2 nicks / cuts from trimming (2-3mm trimmed 1 day before), and also touched my face with cuts wounds (2-3mm) from shaving ( 1 day before), I was still at no risk and must not worry?
I read secondary touch is not a risk.
Thank you. Guilt is still here. I hope I will overcome it soon.
Bye bye. I'm much relieved.
My blood work (FBC) that i have low (LYM) lymphocytes count and increase in GRAN (granulocytes i guess). More of a viral attack for the fever.
Just an update if it helps in anything. I hope you will answer this little query (doubt) that i have above.
Thanks in advance
I have recovered well from my fever. It was of viral origin but unknown. My own system recovering slowly now.
Please have a look at the addendum to my post and give some insight.
Thanks in advance Grace.
absolutely nothing else I can add from what I've already told you.
glad you are feeling better :)
Thank you grace.
I have never betrayed my wife before and never will. I will be returning to my wife tomorrow. I really miss her and my kids.
I have fully recovered now.
Can I now on live without any fear to infect my lovely wife and continue a normal intimate (unprotected) life with her? (since you said no risk from above details)
This will never repeat. Once bitten twice shy;)
as I already said, not a real risk for any std's.
Thanks for your reply.
So I do not need any herpes testing or other stds tests or abstain from my relationship for a time till tested?
I mean I can move on as I am now.. I got no symptoms yet(1.5 week now).
I want to do no harm to my wife and kid and our little baby we expect soon.
Sorry if I irritated you or made you repeat yourself. I humbly apologise. I just want to protect my family from my mistake.
If you say no need for testing herpes or anything else, or no need to wait and expect symptoms, I will accept your answer and move on. Anything you say.
Thank you in advance
bump... Do I need any Herpes / std testing?
still not home;(..flight and bus delayed.. I miss my family and yearn to see them. I have done a wrong thing and I regret it. I want to rectify anything i can.
What has been bad is turning worse.. Please advise me if I need any testing Herpes/std or just need to move on?
A little post that is similar to mine. You had replied on it and it was posted in the doctor's forum also.
Dr Hansfield: " ....This was o superficial a contact to allow transmission of HIV or any other STD, including herpes. The causative viruses and bacteria evolved to require much more intimate contact for transmission; infection requires exposure to large amounts of them, and they have to be inoculated deep inside the body, or with vigorous rubbing of infected skin or membranes. The whole reasons these bugs are transmitted almost exclusively by sex is that they cannot be transmitted by touching, kissing, sneezing, or superficial exposures of the kind that can transmit cold viruses, staph, pneumonia, influenza, tuberculosis, etc.
So you need not be at all worried about HIV or any STD from this event. You do not need testing, and if this is your only potential risky exposure, and if you have aregular partner, you can (and should) continue unprotected sex with her or him.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD "
He also added No penetration = No risk.. subsequently no testing.
This post gives me some hope. Do I take it that I need NO TESTING herpes/stds at all from this encounter?
Sorry for being repetitive or irritating Grace. I could not have the means to post on the paid forum;(.. You are the best help I could get!
Bump.. I hope you look at it. I am really confused. If I need no testing I will move on and never post again.
2 weeks nearly an no symptoms.
I met my family. There is nothing like being with them. I hope you know what I mean!
Take care. See you. Please a last advice.
please don't continue to ask me to repeat myself. you have received an answer to your questions. feel free to pay to post to the std experts if you want further advice.