If you want to get a test that differentiates between HSV 1 (cold sores) and HSV 2 (genital herpes) you can ask for one. It is called a type specific blood test that differentiates between these two types. You will need to ask your provider how long you have to wait after an encounter before getting tested. One brand, Herpeselect type specific Igg gives an index value for each hsv 1 & 2. Anything over 1.1 is positive. Be aware that if you have an index value under 3.5 it might be good to get re-tested with a different brand of test as sometimes index values between 1.1-3.5 can be false positive. Your symptoms don't sound like herpes but it might be good to ask for a full STD panel from someone knowledgable just for your own information and peace of mind.
Well idk then its got me depressed thinking it is though
I have to agree with doc, this doesn't sound at all like herpes.