I am a male 31 years old. Exactly 23 days ago, I got an unprotected oral sex. One week ago, I discovered a bump on the middle shaft of my penis by incident. Then I waited for three days, it was still there, no pain, no itching,no other symptoms. Then (3 days ago) I went to see two doctors, they are both very sure the bump is not herpe. One of the doctors said the bump is a sebaceous cyst and give me some medicines. But I insist to do a hsv blood test.
Today I get the result.
Very Sadly, the igg for hsv1+2 is 30+, (extremely higher than the normal range which is 0-1.1)
igm for hsv1+2 is 1.280,(a little higher than the normal range which is also 0-1.1).
I asked my doctor why the result is for hsv1+2 but not seperated. He doesn't know, but this showed the hsv virus is indeed in my body. And my doctor says probably I had hsv at very early time.
Before my questions, i should say in my life I never had any symptom like herpes oral or genital. Maybe this single bump is an exception, but my doctors say this is not a symptom for herpes.
1,Should I need further blood tests? Since I dont know I am with hsv1 or 2?
2,Can I kiss girls or do unprotected sex in the future?
3,Should I tell this result to the girls I dated before? I never heard they had any herpes symptom.
4,A question I am curious very much, assume that I was infected by this oral sex three weeks ago, is it possible the normal igg increase to 30+ in 20 days and the igm is relatively low like my above result.
I dont know why the hospital only give the sum of igg of hsv1 and hsv2. Is this common?
At last, I want to say I am extremly frustrated and sleepless in this week. Hope any opinion. Thank you very much.