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chance of getting herpes from receiving oral sex (M2M)

Hi! I really worried about my health. I cheated on my girlfriend once on November 13, 2009 and I really regret that. One time, I hooked up with a prostitute (man-to-man) and gave me a roughly less than 30 second blowjob. Now, I'm really worried that I might have Herpes. I did not use condom. What are the percent chances of my having herpes despite that it's a very short blowjob. Nothing happened to us because I came back to senses that what I was doing was wrong and that I really love my girlfriend. Thanks. I'm really scared and I just realized that I really love my girlfriend.

He french kissed me but not intensely that was less than 5 seconds. I have i believe cuts in my mouth but there is no blood anymore during that time. They came from my braces. I also went to the doctor and told me that I have high chance of getting STD based on my current symptoms (burning sensation, frequent urinating, discharge green). I have no bumps or sores on my penis but I do understand that it is still early to tell. No fever still. What's the chance that this is herpes? PLEASE HELP:(
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192270 tn?1216261777
I know your are worried, but you need to relax here.  We cannot diagnose your symptoms.  These sympton don't sound like herpes, and if you are so scared then have yourself tested and wait for your results.  

Here is another valuable lesson!  Never ever receive services from a Prostitute!  Always protect yourself; especially when your involved with someone already.  Your duty was to protect yourself and your girlfriend by wearing condoms.  Condoms do not protect you 100%, so you seriously need to be careful in your extra activities.  

You have to determine where it is that you want to be.  That fact that you went out and messed with a prostitute says you have deeper issues.  It only fair to be honest with your partner.

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i'm also worried because my doctor prescribed me ofloxacin for a week but it did not take away the symptoms. and also, I have all the symptoms of herpes (including the bumps). I am sorry but i'm already freaking out. The doctor did not find anything wrong with urinalysis, which brings me further to more worry due to herpes.
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you just said it once. but the bump made my suspicious. i'm sorry
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101028 tn?1419603004
I'm not sure how many times I have to say that 1 - this isn't herpes and 2- you need to follow up with your provider because at this point there's nothing else we can do for you?

grace
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actually not blister-like sore but bumps. IS THIS HERPES?
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please help:(
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but is this a good chance that this is already herpes despite the yellowish to greenish discharge?
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101028 tn?1419603004
there is nothing else we can do to help you here at this point. if you have new symptoms, follow up on them again with your provider.

grace
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hi i'm dying here i don't know what to do. Just to recap what symptoms my are:

1. Burning sensation
2. discharge
3. lower back pain
4. two bumps (blister-like) on the skin covering the rims of the penis head (circumsied)

PLEASE PLEASE:( I'M BEGGING :(
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please answer, i just discovered that there two bumps on the skin covering the rims of the penis head (circumcised). Is this herpes? please help i'm dying:(
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what can you say about my previous comment? I know that my back pain is related to the std that i have. I've never experienced this before the pain is like something is pushing my back very hard
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the reason I'm asking is that from what I've read, only women with gonorrhea experience back pain
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101028 tn?1419603004
you won't get this type of discharge from herpes.

grace
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and so are there cases in which the pain burning sensation and discharge came first before overt sores?
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yellowish to greenish. what do you think?
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101028 tn?1419603004
if you have greenish discharge, I'd suspect something non-herpes related is going on.

grace
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given the fact that i'm experiencing lower back pain and i'm a man, could this be gonorrhea (i hope) or herpes?

I read from dr. hhh that the burning sensation happens with overt sores. I don't have overt sores. Is there a possiblity that the burning sensation and the discharge occur before overt sores?
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do you think this is herpes?:((
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101028 tn?1419603004
pearly papules are completely normal. they are not hpv related.

If you are having pain , you need to be seen.

grace
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I'm in need of a reply :((

I also experience pain in my right foot:(

The lower back pain seems to move to the middle :(( please help me :(( i am begging:(
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i also have 'pearly penile papules. Is this genital warts?
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I just experienced a very short back pain a while ago. I'm sure it's because of an std because it is the same pain i feel in my groin.
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Urine analysis that's only what I got and I haven't got the results yet. My doctor asked me to take ofloxacin for a week. What do you think?
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101028 tn?1419603004
so what testing did you have done for your symptoms?

grace
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