I'd like to be clear about something. I've read that sometimes you might have genital herpes without knowing it because it's in a dormant state. So recently about 2 months ago for the first time I had a cold sore, I keep saying that I caught it using someone else's lipstick but many people think that I've had before without knowing, because it was in a dormant state. Now I'm very scared and worried that one day I will wake up finding out that I have sores all over my genitals and that I have had genital herpes and didn't know I had it because it was in a dormant state.So now I'd like to know, if 2 months ago my immune was weak and my oral herpes got activated, wouldn't that mean that if I also had genital herpes it would be also activated at the same time?? Please help me understand and worry less. I'm 23 years old and I'm a female.