Im 17 from Australia. I am seeking to enter military service. I never had sex in my life nor any partner or gf. I workout daily and am a bodybuilder. On friday last 25th april me and my friends went to drink some and party in happy hours. My friend then brought me to a massage parlour. There was a table and a couch. The massage ladies were in fact prostitutes and the place turned out to be a brothel. I got a quick neck massage and the lady came directly to having sex which I refused.
However I agreed for a handjob and she was naked. I touched her ***** and kissed her breasts and neck and cheeks. I also sucked them all. No lips kiss. No oral sex. she remove my penis from slip-boxer via the opening fly and it was semi erect. I continued to suck her and climbed on her and simulated sex. at that time only the penis head (glans i guess we call it) was out and i grinded for some seconds (10-30s). she did handjob after masturbating herself for 5-10seconds. My penius may have touched with her vagina and belly bit during grinding for few seconds. I cannot remember if I was in sex postion or sitting on top of her only. But am sure I was on top of her for a few seconds.
Then i left. I was drunk at that time. I remember looking closely at her vagina and saw it was red bit near the lips and thigh. I got sick when i got out and puked a lot. My father had to come to take me home. It is first time I drank so much.
My parents got the wind of what happened and I was severely punished and took some slaps;( They told me i may have got std because sex workser have them and are risky. I am grounded for two weeks to my room now and in front my pc searching if I got an STD. Just school and back home. No party no mobile. I never took drugs. ever..i swear.
I examined my scrotum and penis and mouth everyday now and saw nothing.
1) Till when should I continue to check my penis scrotum and mouth for symptoms of lesions of herpes 1/2?
2) Till when will symptoms appear?
3) Is there any test I should do?
4) If I have nothing, when can I move on and lead a normal life..return to my bodybuilding and all without fear of any stds or herpes?
I really need to be in good physical and mental health to join the army. My parents made me swear not to touch any girl till marriage now. I am broken from fear,
thank you in adnvance if you read and reply. I found this site by internet search.