I recently had sex for the first time and within about thirty hours, I had itching and bumps forming on my vulva and under my tongue. I had previously had unprotected oral sex a week and a half earlier. Some of the bumps look like sebaceous cysts, but near my vaginal opening there are projections that look like skin tags. They just kind of hang down, although they are very small. I have been to see my family doctor and a gynecologist. I've been tested for just about every STD under the sun and everything has come back negative. My family doctor (whose ability I am not confident in) and my gyno said the first time around that it didn't look like warts (and from what I've read on the internet, the timing seems to be nearly impossible). My gyno said that it looked like I had a pretty bad case of vaginal yeast and oral thrush which were causing me rashes and gave me five consecutive doses of flagyl, which only made me sick after doing three of them and didn't alleviate any symptoms.
What's really worried me lately is that I have had a single bump form in my anus about two weeks ago. It was extremely itchy and painful. I put a lot of anti-fungal cream on it and the bump went down after about two days and now it looks very similar to the finger-like projections just under my vaginal opening (ugh, I can't believe I just typed that phrase). But they aren't going away. So I went back to my gyno again and now he is saying that they could be genital warts, he can't tell for sure. I asked him if I could get the skin projections removed, because even if they were just skin tags I thought they could be removed or diminished. But he said that he wasn't going to send me to the dermatologist because they are apparently "too small" and "no one will know they are there." (No wonder I got them in the first place if this is the advice that doctors give, eh?)
Obviously, I'm not very happy with this outcome. I don't really care that I probably have genital warts anymore, I just want them to go away. I've tried apple cider vinegar (and I just want to add, when I put the vinegar on the bumps, they don't turn a different colour from the surrounding skin, if that makes any difference) and it hasn't helped. So since I can't get them removed I just have to wait for them to go away on their own.
So the real issues of this long-winded post are: can genital warts go away on their own? If so, how long does it usually take? Are there any other otc or home remedies that are worth a try?
Thanks for your time and answers!