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oh man

wats up ladies and gentleman, I'm a male 20 y of age and these past couple of months have b hard for me, I'm scared of not knowing, scared my future, and well being, 5 months ago i enga in protected vaginal intercourse with a female from some ***** site, i do not know her or wh she did in the past or her sexual history all i kn that she was my first partner ever, i lost my vir to her, here is what puts me in worry she gave oral sex which was unprotected for 10 mins or longer, and to make matters worse i fingered h vagina with multiple cuts on my fingers. I'm ashamed of what i put myself into and to top i i lost my virginity...my first time, and now i cou have HPV. Im having chest pains, neck pains, ru nose, constant mucus discharge from my eyes skin complexion changed, and i know HPV is tie with mucus dischare there's a word for it....rheumatoid factor, please help me guys. I'm scared for my life right now
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Hi I just recently a member on this web . I'm glad I found it and I am actually diagnosed with hpv high risk . Dr. Did a cryo and its been almost a week now and goin back on may for my 3 months paps. I have couple question Sir if u could give me a piece if mind just knowing
1. Can I pass it to my 5 yrs old by giving him a bath , ofcourse I do clean his genital and butt by baby wife's ,or kissing him on the lips and sharing towel or even sitting on the toilet . I'm very paranoid , my son also getting starting to get scared bcoz I do state at him alot bcoz I want to make sure I didn't spread the disease I have . I rather have it and I accept that but knowing he will get it incase , I don't want to forgive myself.
2 . My husband doenst have any sign or wart on his penis but he will go for blood work done ASAP , can they test on blood work if has std , HIV, herpes Or hpv . Any possible disease outhere. We been married for almost 10 yrs but I know he's been faithful to me . On the other before we got married I use to be an escort and I know I used condom but last yrs I am been unfaithful to him bcoz my marriage is falling apart and I dicided to go have sex w/ my co worker . May we did unprotected sex only happen 5 times w/o condom .
3 . We did anal sex Also just 1 time and never had it before I use to be escort , if possible also I would be positive with hpv on my anal . Why my ob didn't ask or even told me if I have had sex there before . Pls I am very sorry for my long post I am stupid knowing I have this and regret always last minute .
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4. If I have hpv high risk , can i still get wart at the same time , or if I get oral sex will they be in my mouth by now .
Pls help me . Thank you for your time readin this . .
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563773 tn?1374246539
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Hello,
If a partner has significant amounts of blood in her mouth, such as from dental surgery, oral sex can expose the receptive partner to HIV. It is possible to transmit chlamydia during oral sex, and both the recipient and the person performing the act are at risk.

It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.

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you misunderstood what i said, please write back
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i did not say i had unprotected sex, i engaged protected sex and unprotected oral sex which i was the one receiving the oral sex..there are no problems with my penis everything seems alright
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563773 tn?1374246539
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello,
Since you had unprotected vaginal and oral sex, hence you need to get complete STD panel tests done like for Chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, HPV, HIV etc. HIV testing is done with a blood test and is done in full confidentiality. The blood is first tested by ELISA test which is a screening test which looks for antibodies in the blood. Then if it is positive then Western blot test is done to look for specific proteins of HIV.

HPV is one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases. Sometimes there are no symptoms at all of the infection and you cannot know until you do tests to diagnose it. Most people with HPV do not have serious symptoms and body`s immunity resolves the infection itself without any medication. Usually HPV causes warts in pelvic area and genitals. Sometimes it can cause throat infection known as recurrent respiratory pappilomatosis or RRP.

It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.

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