I am an RN who has seen "B & O Suppositories" given for severe rectal pain in another post op situation involving rectal pain. They worked wonderful for a women who had a more extensive rectal surgery. The suppositories contain two narcotics and are rarely used anymore; so a younger surgeon might not recognise the name.
Hi welcome to the hysterectomy forum...as I read your story , I was amazed as to how familiar it sounded. i really think I can help you, Been personally through something very very similar...I had a hysterectomy followed by a BSO and the last fall a internal(several ) and external (3) hemmoroidectomy,.,,not quite the same as retroceyle but same area,,,
first and foremost ,it took me a while ( and 3 er trips) to figure out how to deal with this, You may know this but its so VERY important and I dont see it on your post,,,ok a vicious circle,,,pain medications are needed after this surgery but(hahaha) they cause constipation and the last thing you want after any rectal surgery is to be constipated...I took colace 3 times per day, Mostly I had to drastically change my diet,,,cut way down or no meat at all, eat the most fruit you can handle,Rasins and dried prunes are excellent especially the dried prunes they dont taste so bad (like prune juice does)
Also drink as much water as possible especially when you take pain meds drink a big glass of water with every time.
sitting in a very hot bath tub with watercovering abdomen before you try to poop helps a bit,,,as for digital manipulation for fecal impactation,,yes it works but I would not recommend doing it, as per your negative experience of passing out.
I like you had problems sitting , used a donut for quite a while,,I also temporarily took a small dose of flexeril to relax the muscles a bit,,once I had one experience with impactation it became my biggest fear,,,,
The three times I went to er I had to be placed on a Dilaudid Iv drip and they used a enema which I could not even insert the tip of at home per pain.
The only thing that worked was a very big drastic change in diet,,,a nurse in the er recommeded Kellogs Crackling Oat Bran,,,its like Cherrios is shape only way bigger and loaded with fiber, I ate them like you would potatoe chips straight from the box,,,very sweet,,a good treat and it helped.
it sounds like your advocating for self well, sometimes when we go to see a specialist they tend to want to do a corrective procedure, which again causes the vicious circle.Like I tell women on here all the time, ie. how many operations does one have to remove scar tissue,,knowing each surgery is infact creating more scar tissue...My meaning I would give an incredible amount of thought to corrective surgery if recommeneded. good luck hope some of the food tricks helps,,,I was eating all most nothing but High Fiber foods ,,and a plus I dropped 16 lbs.....Take Care , Cherie