You have said my very thoughts just here. A lot more eloquently than I ever could...thank you for that. And you are right sometimes ignorance is bliss.
This is really a wonderful post by a obviously a very evolved woman. I so appreciated you sharing this. Wishing peace of mind to all those who suffer.
Thanks guys ....you give me hope.All I am trying to do is help understand the ones who cheated and now regret it with all their heart.And no....... I am not talking about serial cheaters who don't give a stuff about anyone but them selves...they need a good kick up the B.U.M and sent on their cheating way, they are the ones who want to stay in the honeymoon phase forever.... they need that high.Trouble is nature only allows our hormones to go into overdrive while we are connecting! then its up to us.
In that way I believe like an addict they have to have that feeling of euphoria all the time,Walking on air .... mind full of that person...excitement.A lot of them believe that is true love and it should go on forever .These are the ones that do the most damage because they leave a trail of broken hearts behind,but they go on their merry way oblivious to the mayhem they have caused.
This is the worst type of cheater I think.... because at the time they believe everything they say and do.
Gosh its 3.52 am night all.
Ma'am, God bless you. I think my wife is going to come to terms with this. I have all the faith in the world. it is a bumpy damn road, but we will survive it.
Actually, when I found this board and signed up, I thought when I spilled my guts all I was going to get was a hard time. (For what I did, I guess I thought I deserved it) In return, all I got out of this board was a ton of good information and a ton of opinions that represented just about every emotion under the sun.
For that, I truly wish to thank all of you. Thank you for the support you have shown Dee Dee and myself, and thank you for all of the words of encouragement. It all does mean so much and it does shine a lot of hope into this journey.