Is he cheating?

[younggrandmother]

My daughters 21 year old friend is dating a man who is 37. they have benn dating for about 4 months and she spends all of her time at his home whether he is there or not because he likes it that way. For the passed couple of weeks he has been trying to start fights. Last weekend he really blew up , took away her key to his house and didnt call all weekend.Then come sunday he was calling her off the hook trying to make up. When she gave in she got to his house and he was drunk and he told her that one of his girl pals of 20 years came over from out of town and slept at his home IN HIS BED WITH HIM. He says its normal for a man and woman to sleep in the same bed and that she is just being foolish and immature. The following have also happened

*she has found flirty emails to this lady from his email
*she has found racy photos of the woman in his phone
*he lies to her about his facebook account
Obviously all signs point to yes that something is going on but why he give her the key to his house, introduce her to all his family and express how lucky he is to have such a young girl by his side all while he is talking to this other 40 year old woman.IS HE CHEATING? and what should she do?

[younggrandmother]

They brook up, I don't know for how long. She is making a lot excuses for him. Thank you all for your posts. :)

[PromisedLand]

I have "slept" yes slept with other women in their beds or mine on several occasions with nothing sexual taking place....we were good friends and knew that anything sexual could ruin our friendship..I'm not saying that's what this guy is doing....it sounds suspicious to me.


Jim

[mami1323]

Sounds like yes he is.  Why not give her the keys and introduce her?  She's young and I'm sure attractive, she's arm candy to him.  He shows her off but does what he wants on the side.  I highly doubt a man would lay in bed with another woman and not do anything.  If she's seen emails and photos going back and forth than there is no question about it.  He wants his cake and eat it to.  Four months isn't that long, she should get out before she invests more time in a relationship that is dysfunctional.