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The other woman
Did you ever ask questions about the other woman and finally get some questions answered? Well I did on Saturday. My fiance went out to eat and we got to talking about why the affair happened and what we could've done differently and how glad we were to be able to talk about it and not be angry. Well we started talking about the w hore and I asked if he ever considered being with her if we ever did break up. He said that he never saw himself with her in that way. That he had feelings but he knew that she wasn't the type of woman he could have a relationship with. She was almost 40 with no kids and never ever uttered a word about his kids. She never asked about them at all. I know she wouldn't ask about Jayden since I got pregnant with him during their affair and I'm sure she wasn't thrilled about him. But how could you not show interest in this man's children? So to him that was a big no-no. Then another thing she would do was start fights with him because she was jealous when she would see him talking to other women in the gym. She would accuse him of cheating. Now that is the strangest thing I've ever heard. First of all, he's not hers to get jealous over, he was mine. Second, how can you accuse him of cheating when in fact he is cheating on me with her? I mean are you for real? But the thing is, I asked these questions, but finding out that she would behave this way made me angry all over again at her. Like she had nerve. He did say though that it was getting down to the end anyway when I found out, because he knew she wanted more but he didn't ever want to leave me.
Girl, it sounds all too familiar. I woud get the same about the phone, oh it was dead or I didn't feel it ring. I got the oh I'm dressing up because I'm tired of wearing gym clothes all the time. He used to go walk the dog and I would call him and he wouldn't pick up, he would be gone for like 20 minutes and he would say he took our dog for a walk around the block. It don't take no damn 20 minutes that's for sure. He would go to the bathroom many times and I would say either you have a horrible stomach or something's up and he would say, what now you count how many times I take a sh!t. He would be hanging out with friends that I never met. He would come home with a new leather jacket and new watch and tell me they were from clients. Which was the truth but she wasn't just a client. I would hear him texting right next to me and he would think I was asleep. I could hear him whispering on the phone in the bathroom when he thought I was sleeping. He protected his phone like a crazy person. Just a million and one stories that I knew were a bunch of bull. But again, had no proof. When he got caught I wasn't surprised because I knew things were not right. I was mad as hel! Trust is sacred and very hard to rebuild.
Trust is hard to rebuild,,also when i did not no anything about the affair,he would talk about a guy he new telling me all about him and his life,,the whole time he was talking about her,,its sick actually,,,,and lets talk about the other woman his misstress????now i am his wife,im in the dark about the whole affair,,she was home wrecking my family,,sleeping with my husband ,,helping him spend are money,, and haveing unprotected sex with him ,,,and has been seen shopping with him,,,,driveing around with him,crank calling my home for him,,etc etc,,now her and her husband,,exposed the affair to me in there twisted sick head,,he called my home!!he came to my home to make a scene in front of my children when i was at work!!he contacted my work!!why??????when i finally talked to this man and asked him why he was trying to find and talk to me???the first words that came from his mouth was she meaning the misstres wanted me to find you and tell you about the affair cause she is pissed off???????now dont yu think thats a crazy person??she is the one screwing my husband and messing up my life but she is pissed off so much that she sends her seperated husband to deliver the affair news to me,,WHAT COWARD AND HIPOCRITE SHE IS,,they both ganged up on me ,,with millions of crank calls,,we had t change our numbers and get restraining orders,,and why????cause i would not give her the time of day,,to meet or talk to me,,although she called my house private number and when i answered called me a ***** and hang up,,WHAT THE HELL DID I DO EXACTLEY BUT BE IGNORANT OF NOT WANTING TO TALK OR SEE YOU,,HOW STUPID AND HIPOCRITE IS THAT SERIOUSLY,,IM INOCENT TO THIS AFFAIR BUT YET ME AND MY CHILDREN SUFFER FOR YOUR BEHAVIOURS,,, SAD REAL SAD,,PATHETIC
Man she deserves an a$$ whopping for that. You were the innocent person here so why are you the b!tch? She's the one messing with your life. What a psycho! Well this chick didn't confront me but when we spoke she had no remorse because she thought it was her opportunity to get to be with him now. She thought we would break up and this was her chance. Now she's got a match.com page and at first she was looking for men between the ages of 37-47, then she changed it to 35-45 and now she changed it again to 30-42. Like come on date a man your age and stop trying to be a damn cougar. She's nearly 40 years old. Its pathetic!
I seriously dont understand why these woman get upset at us??? and revenge on us,,we are inocent to the whole situation,,and when they get involved with an attached man,what do they expect???he has a wife ,,he has a family,,you no that,,so why do they get mad at us,,i never called her or spoke to her ever,,nor did i want to,,the war was with him,,he betrayed me not her,,but yet she searches for me,,harrasas me and cranks me and ,,,and i spent countless hours at the police station from the harrassment,,it whent to court it was so bad,,they got 12 months of not to come or contact me him or my children,,so i hade to suffer tha after math also on top of everything,,but yet i did nothing but go to work and come home to all this bull,,thats another reason i dont heal also the fact that i was harrased and verbally abused by his misstress and her psycho
That's what I said, why is she hurt and sad? She knew what she was getting into when she got involved with an attached man. I'm the one who was in the dark, I was the one being betrayed. What the heck is she mad about? I mean obviously he isn't some great guy or else he wouldn't be cheating on me. These women have psychological issues. That's what my therapist said. That this woman needs to seek therapy of her own...lol. Well at least in your situation your husband met himself a real fatal attraction and got disgusted with her. In my situation my fiance felt bad for her because he said that he dogged her out to. That didn't make me feel any better. But I made it clear to him that she got herself involved with him knowing I was there, knowing I was pregnant, so she allowed herself to get hurt. Why feel sorry for someone who puts themself in that position. Feel sorry for me.
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